On Getting Married

I’ll be writing alot more on this topic, but for starters. I like it. I would never not want to be married. I hate sleeping alone. At social events I hate being alone. I don’t know why, maybe because I am an only child and spent alot of years alone. My husband and I met at work. We worked at a messengar service. We delivered stuff for the record industry. It was a pretty fun job and easy. It was a while before I knew what he looked like becasue we used these walkie talkie things to communicate with everyone. I liked his voice though. Apparently, he hated me. At least that’s what he told me later. He was jealous because I was getting more work than he did. I won’t go into why that was, but at any rate…he invited my friend and me over to his place and that was pretty much it. We hung out everyday from then on and I never really went home. A few months later we moved in and three years later, we got married.

We had no plan. Just got married. We knew we wanted kids so I was pregnant a month later. Alot of people plan for stuff like this. Not us, we just knew we loved each other and wanted a family. We really had no plan for anything. We got married, then lived with my parents for a couple months til we figured out what we were going to do.  We were poor. Somehow we worked it out. I guess looking back, maybe we should’ve planned our lives out better, but in the end things worked out pretty good. I’ll talk more about it in the next few posts.